I light this for Hayden, a much-loved and eagerly awaited baby boy who was born 9 October 2006 at 11:58 pm, CDT... and who passed sometime in the early morning hours of 10 October 2006.
This one is for Rebecca, his mother, whose heart is shattered.
For his family.
And, selfishly, for us-- the nursing staff who took care of Rebecca for nearly two months, who got to know her and sweet Hayden, if only through the faulty media of ultrasound and doppler machines.
Rebecca's water broke at 21 weeks. She spent 8 weeks on strict bedrest, while we monitored her and Hayden carefully. On Monday night, she went into labor and delivered her precious son, but his little lungs never developed properly, and he remained earthside only briefly, before the Great Mother gathered him to Her breast.
Please hold this family and their angel in your hearts.
Love and all blessings,
Willow, weeping








