Healing/Strengthening Energy please - decisions to be made

[LadyAoftheshire]

I would love some support/healing/enlightening energy at this time.

I am coming to realization that I don’t love my husband as much as he loves me, and that I love him but I can’t really say that I am “in love” with him.. We haven’t been married that long, but I have always had niggling feelings/doubts but have put those off as jitters/commitment phobias etc. I have also been a lot more depressed and suffered from more ailments since we have been together...

I just need to make some touch decisions and also be open to listen to my heart and also have the strength to either leave or stay. I won’t be making any rush decisions, and have been trying to meditate a lot/take walks and just be at peace as my head is a bit of a jumble right now..

I have written down what my head and my heart are telling me, but I am still not certain...

Thanks, blessed be

[Julysea]

Have you thought of going to Relate? You can go on your own, without telling your husband if you wish, but they are very good at helping people make decisions like this. Sometimes we all need a little outside/expert help...

I was also in this situation some years ago, but I didn't get any help, tried to deal with the situation alone. I left my husband, which was the right decision and have never regretted it, but it was an awful time and looking back on it, I think some expert help and advice would have been very useful, certainly in how I initiated the split and how I dealt with it afterwards.

I hope you find the right answer for you and find some peace soon.

[mantis]

i think julysea is very correct.I would add the more you talk to others the better you'll feel.Its not easy i have been there too.

[Nightfalls]

im only 26 and even i have been there, it is becoming more common these days. def get that outside help first.

[Aurora]

for you. I agree with tho others getting some outside help to you deal with this would be good as someone who can be truly objective about the situation will see things you can't.

Blessings to you

[Zylah]

I too have been there, done that. I know it's incredibly difficult; will send blessings your way.

I agree with the others about seeking an objective opinion. The information we see can be quite distorted in this type of situation by the simple fact that we are too close and cannot attain the clear, farsighted hawk-vision we need most.

Be well.