Aoife wrote:**back to the original topic**
Perhaps I should explain more clearly.
I am not a druid yet. I'm still researching it and it seems like this is the path I would like to follow but I admit that pacifism conflicts with my nature when it comes to danger, however rare it may be. As of yet I haven't used my kung fu on anyone but I admit the whole reason I took it was because I was...victimized...when I was 19 years old and I swore to myself I would never be anyone's victim again. However, I know I would not hesitate to fight if I absolutely had to.
Hi Aoife,
I was victimized quite a number of times as a child and in my teens and I too swore that I would not allow that to happen again. Looking at many of the myths and legends of the Irish, Welsh, etc., the Celts were not pacifists either. Far from it, in fact! The Druids may have been exempt from battle, but who was it who taught those warriors to be brave in battle because their souls were immortal? The Druids. Who was it who supposedly ran through the battles inciting the warriors to fight (according to the Romans)? Black-robed Ban-Draoi (Female Druids). It was said that a Celtic woman was a formidable foe on the battlefield as well, so fighting was not just for the men.
This may not be 100% historically correct, but my point is that the Druids were the spiritual leaders in a warrior society. I don't think they were preaching pacifism as rule #1. Balance and prudence, perhaps, but not 100% pacifism.
Finally, look at The Morrighan, the Irish Goddess of transformation, fate, battle and war. It was She who fueled the fighting spirit in the warriors and I don't think She would instruct her warriors to roll over and not fight. (I know for a fact that She does not - I've been a devotee of hers for a long time.)
There is nothing written anywhere that says a Druid *must* be a pacifist. I know I'm not and I've been on the Druid path since 1991. My ancestry includes Celtic blood (Welsh and Irish) as well as Cossacks on my father's side. Being a pacifist would go against my very blood, I'm thinking.
Some Modern Druids may embrace pacifism, others do not. The wonder of Modern Druidry is that you have the opportunity to grow and develop on your path and discover for yourself the sacred balance as well as what is right and wrong. (Trust me... you'll know either way as you journey on your own path!)
However, all that said, being a non-pacifist Druid does not give license for one to be senselessly violent either. There must be a balance with things. There must be some wisdom in the decision of whether to fight for something and how much you put into that fight. If you or your family are being threatened, victimized, etc., then yes, you fight back if you can.
A few years back, I was moved to write my own "Standards of Ethical Living". The motivation were a couple of people living in the house that were in trouble with the law and a host of other things, so I put it up on the wall as a reminder of the "rules of our House" so to speak. This is not meant to be a missive of how anyone here or anywhere else should live, they are just the standards I have set for myself. I think you might be particularly interested in #14.
1. All life is sacred
2. Uphold the Truth, starting with yourself
3. Uphold the Law ~ You are a member of society and are bound by its rules ~ Do no evil
4. Uphold Justice ~ Be sure of your convictions and practice fair judgment
5. Every action has a consequence ~ Be prepared to compensate for ill action if required and learn from your mistakes
6. Hospitality is Sacred ~ Be good host as well as a good guest
7. Be compassionate and merciful in your actions
8. Maintain your health
9. Make an honest living, be competent, work with high standards, spend your fortune wisely and pay your dues ~ Do not live beyond your means
10. Follow a sincere Path of Service and maintain Rectitude
11. Maintain stability through a healthy balance of personal, professional and spiritual priorities
12. Live in the present ~ use knowledge of the past and present to create a positive future
13. Be mutually respectful of other Faiths, the Earth, our Communities and our Peers
14. Maintain an honourable presence and uphold valour ~ do not allow others to victimize you
I compiled these from various sources including the Triads, Audacht Morann, Awen Grove’s Statement of Ethics, The Path of Service, Instructions of Cormac and Good Common Sense in August of 2007.
I wish you all the best on your path and hope that you find the answers you seek along the way.

Blessings,
Athelia /|\